Ezekiel

Well I`ve said it before and I`ll say it again, Ain`t nothin`like a box of ten books from home to make you smile. 

At noon today I came in from San Jose on an eight-hour bus ride. I had to wake up at 4 to catch it at 4:30. Too early, obviously, but my bleary-eyed suffering was rewarded with more panoramic views of the mountains silhouetted against the sunrise.... and two seats to myself in which to crash. When people would load on the bus, I played every Gringa card to prevent them from occupying my second seat. ¿Q-Què? No yo haabla españish...

I was in San Jose on a whim. The only solid plans you can count on here are whims. I know that sounds like an oxymoron, but it`s the law of the land. On Friday night, I actually had a tough choice of which whim to whim. My sister Katerina was gearing up to go on her third serenata of the month (yes, the ones with the all night party buses and hung over beach bumming), but this final one was to visit all the teachers in the wee hours to serenade them (nuns excluded). However, my older sister, Paula was in town and I had an offer to bum a ride with the fam to drop her off in San Jose too. The fact that I was already feeling sick tipped the scale and I decided to go with Paula and take a break from Neily, my job, and stagnant thoughts for until Thursday.

Again the drive to San Jose hands down the most beautiful thing I`ve ever seen in my life. Photos can`t capture it and my words sound clichè. It occurred to me that heaven could not compete because nothing could possibly be more beautiful than the relationship between land, water, sky and cloud along that road. Like some sweetly sarcastic joke, a double rainbow sprouted from out of the billowing cloud floor and made me want to freeze time.

Around five in the afternoon we descended into the starry city. It is pitch black here by that time. As usual, I had no idea what the plan was, but I happily went along for the ride, touring relatives` houses and gladly stuffing myself with cooked vegetables, stews, rice, beans, empenadas, ice cream in plastic bags, and cake. We made it back to Paula`s modern and familiar little house in Tres Rios around 9. I just had time for some CNN election coverage before passing out. Very hopeful, even more nervous.

The next day was all-American. We woke up at five to sprint through the streets in car and on foot to make it to my dad`s doctor`s appointment on time in downtown San Jose. We waited there among the slightly less-friendly, faster paced Ticos for a sleepy hour for the doctor to give him the okay. Then we raced to a different side of town to pick up Francini, my third sister, who had come in from Guanacaste for the weekend to see everyone. Now, San Jose is much more organized than this rural part of the country, but the drivers don`t seem to like organization. A stop sign, along with yield signs and yellow and red lights mean nothing to the Tico driver. This made for interesting experiences in the teaming main streets... the kind of thing where you know you`d be able to enjoy the fun of it if only you knew you`d live through it. Once joined by Francini (amazingly tan from her sunny internship), we found a quick touristy breakfast spot. Over Gallo Pinto, I observed with interest the ways that I could immediately tell nationality in fellow gringos from eating habits while my family caught up with gossip in too-fast Spanish. From there I mentioned that I`d like to see El Teatro Nacional which is in the dead center of the city. Of course, the whim was whimmed and we pulled a U-turn and parked downtown to go see the beautiful theater and Grand Hotel. The central square looks right out of Madrid. Stunning and exciting... filled with people from all races and backgrounds, rushing around. We toured the theater (because I have blue eyes, I had to pay 5 dollars while my family walked in for free as Costa Ricans) which was gorgeous. It is filled with frescos, gold leaf and ornate sculptures. Like a stroll through a Mr. Benidict art lecture... without Charlie snoring behind me.

I`ll spare you the details of what we did after the tour because it will probably sound like what you have already done today. Or, rather, what you will do after Thanksgiving. Yes, Christmas has already fallen upon this country and we`re not even up to Halloween.

The next morning, I agreed to meet my AFS friend Asger in the central square to bum around the city and catch up. Neither of us have cell phones, are familiar with San Jose, or would be able to travel with anyone. I decided to view the unlikely plan as another adventure that probably wouldn`t work out, but I boarded the bus in Tres Rios and decided to see if we could swing it. The bus was empty when I boarded and I happily took a window seat. At the next stop, I realized the bus would fill up, so I moved over when a nice looking girl motioned to sit next to me. I was glad I didn`t have to sit next to someone like the guy that got on after her! He was a huge guy with greasy gelled curls and sweaty armpits. It looked like he had just thundered down five blocks to catch the bus. Of course, just as I was contemplating this, my seat partner spotted her friend in the back of the bus, and got up to sit with her just in time for this new guy to plop down next to me. I don`t remember when we started talking, but I found out he spoke fluent English, and while he practiced his English on me, I slowly opened up responding in Spanish.

He told me his name was Mariano, and he told me all about his favorite parts of Costa Rica. He was a delightfully friendly man, with an amor pura por vida. I`m not kidding when I say that he almost cried telling me about Chirripò, the tallest mountain here. I really want to go. When we both got off about an hour later in downtown San Jose, walked towards my meeting spot and his office together. I found out he had created a language school in the city and he was the Hebrew teacher. I told him my dad was Jewish and he said "Aha! When I sat down next to you I thought you looked like a Jew!" delightedly. He told me Ezekiel means "strong from God" in Hebrew. We talked about holidays here and the tiny Jewish population of Costa Rica all the way to the square. We exchanged contact information and he told me if I wanted to, I could come to his school to celebrate Hanukkah with him and his students in December. I thanked him for the offer and he shook hands to leave. A strange expression settled on his face when I was about to walk away and I asked him what happened. He told me I shook hands like an American girl and if I do it so forcefully like that, people will think I`m a lesbian. I told him I couldn`t help it, I`m strong from God, and we happily parted after I gave him the satisfaction of shaking my limp hand.

Nicest people on Earth.

So I had arrived to the square a little earlier than anticipated so I bought myself a nice fatty carmel coffee, and happily people watched in front of the National Theater. The place was abuzz because the president of Chile was visiting that day, and security was checking everything out. After about 15 minutes. I felt a tap on the back of my head. It was Asger! It seemed so improbable that two Estadounidenses could possibly find each other in this crazy country, but our plan actually worked! I was so glad to see him. 

We strolled to a balcony breakfast cafe, catching up and griping about all the little things that only other exchangers can relate to. Even though it was our first chance to eat a breakfast of whatever we wanted, we both happily sat down with plates full of Gallo Pinto, the same breakfast we`ve been eating every day since August. The view was Cosmopolitan and the food was delicious. On the other side of the dining area, a wistful man was painting on a canvas turned away from us, completing the artsy little scene. A few tables down the porch, there was a man who, upon hearing our giggling English, asked where we were from. We got to talking, and within five minutes, realized we were both born in the same hospital in Yipsi. It really does feel like a small world. Then I excused myself to peek over at the artist`s work. At first I thought it was some cleverly abstract view of the bustling street, but then Asger tugged me away just in time for me to see he was basing his painting off of a wildly pornographic page ripped out of a magazine that laid under the canvas. It`s a strange world too.

We made our way North, after some very touristy map confusion, to meet up with our German and Belgian friends Felix, Amalie and Louise. Felix and Lousie work in the National Children`s Museum or their volunteer placement. We made it up the hill in a taxi to see that the Museum is a castle. Later I found out that it was actually the old San Jose jail, but we agreed that if we had to putz our lives away incarcerated, this panoramic fortress would be our choice. We met our good friends dressed as palace workers and received a VIP tour. This place was so cool. It was like the Hands On Museum plus Cosi plus Costa Rica. With over 40 rooms, a petting zoo, a real helicopter and airplane, a walk through biome zone with all the climates of Costa Rica, a role-playing kid cafe and grocery store (with working registers... SO cool) and an optical illusion house, it was hard not to revert to childhood glee. Compared to our friend Tom whose placement is fish breeding, Felix and Louise lucked out big time.

Our happy reunited party clopped back down to the main avenue after the tour to indulge in Pizza Hut and ice cream and contemplate the exciting prospect of our two weeks off in January. Our wish list includes a Guanacaste Beach Tour, Climbing Chirripo, Canopy Hangliding somewhere and White Water rafting from Tres Equis. Later, we went to the Museo del Oro (Gold Museum) and saw the freshest jewelry collection ever. There was this like 3 pound golden lobster necklace. If I were a rapper... The sun set golden over the chillier city. We finished our day of fun sipping girly little coffee drinks on the warmly lit patio of the Grand Hotel, sharing funny anecdotes and watching the madness of the moments before the Chilean president made her way out onto the square.

Getting home was a little scary/complicated by bus alone at night, but there are always people to help. As long as you have a passing understanding of Spanish, use your head and know who to ask for help, you can get out of anything here. I felt like the net of humanity is always there to catch me if I fall. Faith in mankind is too often called naïveté. The world is a good place. I`m so lucky to be experiencing it first hand in this beautiful country.

Elaine

There Have Been These Days

Well as long as I have the pleasure of making you all jealous with my warm weathered-adventures, it`s only fair to let you know about the times when Ann Arbor doesn`t seem so bad. The rain is relentless. Nobody ever mentions the weather can make or break your day. ...Or week. Even when I can point to nothing wrong here, the constant smatter of la lluvia on the metal roofs displaces something in me. It doesn`t bother the AFSer from Boston here... I should really just woman up, it makes the flowers thrive. 

The other reason for my glumness is my long-planned trip to Playa Hermosa fell through on account of the dangerous driving conditions. I have slowly begun to understand that nothing is certain in Costa Rica. I guess you could call it the downside of Pura Vida. Our uptight, bustling nature in the States leads to efficiency and dependability that is lacking in this country. I can`t decide which I prefer. A useful defense mechanism to develop here is the ability to see positive and negative aspects of any possible outcome. For example, my healthy personal monologue to medicate this particular upset is: Good thing this trip didn`t come through! We would have all been eaten by sharks if we had been able to go! ...Obviously half hearted, but as Derian wrote me, there is no time for you to waste being upset. Make everything great. She`s right, of course and I will kickbox out any remaining frustration I have tonight in aerobics class.

My sister`s graduation dinner was this last Saturday night. Everyone got dressed up as if for prom and drove out to a Roman-themed party venue. The golden decor, which I helped to make, glittered against the purple, cavernous night. We toasted the 20-odd seniors and danced the sticky night away. My parents were a little too shy to venture onto the dance floor in front of all the other families, but after everyone else had left and the wait staff were breaking down the tables, the DJs blasted on, and the four of us boogied to tacky eighties music in the aisles. It was like what would roll during the ending credits of my Costa Rican movie, and it felt wonderful.

Today was the first day of La Semana Ambiental-or Environmental Week at the school. My job was to present a long interactive power point about environmental awareness and recycling. It wasn`t quite as enthusiastically received as the one about my life in the US, but I think I at least got the message across. After my presentation, the 7th grade class filed onto the presenting area to put on an environmental-themed theatrical production. Now, I have seen three of these works and the students are always mumbling their lines which are already in Spanish and thus, difficult to understand, but I have detected general common plot line. One girl is always dressed as a homeless beggar, two boys are always gun-carrying Italian mobsters and they usually shoot the beggar. Eventually, a protagonist comes, sometimes dressed as the patron saint of the school, to save the day. Today`s was only different because when the beggar dramatically fell to her knees- mid swan croak, she slung a real garbage bag, full of yesterday`s lunch waste across the floor. Its contents filled the auditorium with an awful smell, and when St. Francis descended to absolve the situation and the play ended, they exited without cleaning their mess. Then the kindergarten class shuffled onstage, dressed as various flower fairies, trees, and forest animals. They started singing a song about environmentalism and on the last note, a boy dressed as a lumberjack sliced them all with a cardboard chainsaw and they dropped dead on their backs. The assembly ended with an image of dead fairy carcasses amongst a pile of rotting trash.

Hopefully the sum of these demonstrations somehow inspire students to stop throwing their garbage all over the garden. Time will tell.

This Sunday I was munching on a cheeseburger getting some letter writing done at Hotel Andrea, when my ears perked up at the sound of my native tongue. I looked up to see two soaking Brits. I joined them for a beer and learned that they were on a grand motorcycling adventure. The motorists, Steve and Deb, had spent five and a half months biking from the tip of Alaska to Montreal, down to Texas and California, and in the last few weeks had meandered their way down through Central America. I hope I still have the energy for crazy adventures when I`m 60 like them. Very cool.

Pura Vida (The good and the bad!)

Elaine

On The Road

Well I started my first Kerouac novel. He`s crazy. Hopefully this blog will turn out to report half as many escapades as I make my travels. I love all this time I have for reading! I have been missing out rowing all my free time away. That`s actually not true, I miss crew more than most things. If only there were a way to erg while reading...

Speaking of traveling escapades, I rewarded myself yesterday by spreading my laminated Costa Rican map before me on the teachers` room table during work to plan my future adventures. And oh what adventures they will be! So far, I`ve been invited to travel to the North to a beach called Playa Ostional where every year, for one week, thousands to turtles come to lay their eggs. My job as a volunteer will be seeing to it that the hatched baby turtles make it to the ocean safely. I`ll be working for around 8 hours a day, one shift for sunrise and one for sunset. I am also traveling for my mid-stay orientation (mid-stay!? time is flying) in Nicaragua later next month. Later this month, some of the AFS kids are trying to get together for a weekend together at La Playa Hermosa nature reserve/beach to catch up and enjoy each other's company. I also want to climb Costa Rica`s tallest mountain, Chirripó, which should take about three days, visit the cloud forests of Monteverde, visit my friend Molly in Guanacaste and see the city of David in Panamá. Let`s see how far my Holiday`s waitressing tips will get me. The gorgeous eight-hour bus ride to San Josè costs about 6 dollars. Pu-ra Vi-da! 

I haven`t made any new posts recently because a.) it would be pretty difficult to top the impressive craziness of earlier this month and b.) every day Neily feels like less of a vacation and more of a home. I am filling up my free time simulating the same insane schedule I have in the States. Maybe it`s just a natural inclination. Yesterday I was teaching English or preparing for Environmental Week between the National University and the school where I work from 7:30 to 8pm. The best feeling in the world is to walk out from the grey, sopping streets of Neily after a lonely bus ride home to be greeted by my family in warm light and the smell of frying plàtanos. This family life is the best part of the AFS program, and something I wouldn`t have had the chance to experience sight-seeing from hotel to hotel. Our home is like the clubhouse for the whole extended family. Cousins, aunts, boyfriends, babies and grandparents fill the seats. The coffee sock is always straining hot water, the TV is always alive with latin music videos, the rice kettle is always full and so are the pitchers of crazy fruit juice. There is this one juice that looks like bubble tea, but the little fuzzy spheres are potable seeds from the fruit. You have to shake it up or you`ll choke. I feel thankful for my placement into such a loving family. However, I`m not sure of how unusual this home situation is, as I`ve grown aware that Ticos are the very nicest people on Earth.

I take advantage of my waning time, the fact that I have nothing to lose, and extra sympathy and patience I receive as an exchange student by chatting everyone up. Taxi drivers, college students, restaurant owners... everyone is my own private Spanish tutor. And it`s nothing like those grammar lessons out of the dry Spanish curricula at home. These people smile with their eyes and laugh with their whole bodies. I think my favorite symbol of Costa Rican hospitality are the little Sodas that you can find on every street corner. They look like the breakfast nook of any house, but the counter is exposed to the street and lined with about five stools. Inside you can see a normal stove and oven, a fridge and a mix of plastic tableware. You plop down on a stool and tell the cook what you want, and for three dollars you can sip fresh fruit juice and discuss life with the other customers while the woman cooks you a home made meal.

I taught English again today, which is good because that means I don`t have to again until next Tuesday... Last week was culture fest, so I was offered an opportunity to show the school a slide show on powerpoint of my daily life in the states and give a speech in Spanish about it. Everyone loved to see the differences, especially a photo of the snowy arb, and I managed to pass with an air of fluency if I do say so myself. The head nun is fond of me, and I think I`m doing a good enough job that she shows me off to school officials. This will be helpful when I want to ask for travel time off. Really though, I walk into work happy to be there every morning (except Tuesdays, that is!).

My sister`s graduation dinner is this weekend. I think I might actually be proud of her. Not that she`s the typical little sister, as she knows everything here, and I`m essentally incompetent, but all the same.

I`ll leave you with a humorous anecdote: I spend most of my day sitting in the quiet library working. It`s usually empty except for the librarian nun who is generally very quiet. She has huge glasses that magnify her eyes for an animated effect. Anyway, she was the nun who was scared by the plastic alligator at the baby shower. So when she tapped the back of my upturned book with a giant toy iguana, I laughed, unsurprised, to pacify her feelings and continued reading. Then a tail whipped around the table, and I saw the toy blink. I screamed and jumped out of my chair, realizing that this 4 foot monster was alive. The nun merrrily cackled and went outside to put her friend back where she found him. That incident opened up our social sides, and I learn about being a nun from her as I prepare for my lessons.

Pura Vida, Much Love,

Elaine

Yo No Me Doy Por Vencido

I DID IT!!! Not only did I successfully accomplish making the elusive @ sign (@@@@@! (Thanks Conor!!)), but I was also able to sign in here for the first time in 11 days. Wow, life is good.

Really though, life is fantastic here. I am assimilating, learning, growing, laughing and making tons of mistakes every day. Too much has happened in the last week and a half for a normal post, but I`ll run through the basics:

My job has been going really well. As long as the students are still in school (their vacation starts at the end of November), my job has been focused on working with them. I have become known as TEECHER and although I`ve never really been a huge kid fan, I have to admit that when 15 of them run up to me, scrambling for one of the two coveted spots holding my hands, I feel great. The school has grades K through 12, so while I get to enjoy the goofiness of the little ones, when I feel like talking to someone my own age, there are about 20 really cool classmates of my sisters who accept me as their own. So far, I have designed 3 murals to be painted outside the school and over the recycling center, planned the beginnings of Environmental Week, and made posters and worksheets. On Tuesdays, the English teacher has to go to professional development, so he asked me if it would be alright if I taught his classes once a week. Uhhh, ¿si? So the disorder of my placement has come full circle, and now I really am teaching English.

Tuesdays are by far my most tiring days. Last Tuesday, the first time I taught, I had a miscommunication with the English teacher, and never received any lesson plans. Luckily (not) I was teaching 5th, 6th and 7th grades for an hour and a half each. I ad-libbed my way through lessons about the difference between future and present conditional to classes of 30. There is a huge construction project going on outside the school, and the machines make it impossible to teach or hear hardly anything, my dry-erase markers refused to write, and for the grand finale, a huge, gorgeous Harry Potter-style bird landed on the window sill right when I was making progress with the 5th grade, erupting the class with screams of glee. For any teacher who I have ever distracted or bothered, I am receiving my karma in full. ...Sorry.

I love the staff of the school. They are all super understanding and laid back. From all sides, I am accepted as an equal. This is because my age is somewhat ambiguous here. The students think I`m their age, but the teachers think I`m well into my twenties. Just like the mix-up with my job, I don`t see any advantage in clearing the confusion. I was surprised and delighted to be invited to the English teacher`s wife`s baby shower last week. The gym teacher drove me to his house and we celebrated with the same dopey baby shower traditions and games we have in the States. The funniest thing that happened was when the mischievous Social Studies teacher found an alligator toy and scared one of the nuns out of her mind.

My social life is picking up as well as my professional life. Last weekend was hands down the craziest in my life. My sister, Katerina, told me that it was a tradition to serenade the boys of the senior class on Saturday. I thought that sounded stupid and like fun, so I got ready to go around dinner time, assuming that we would leave around 7 (so far, assuming has only made an ass out of me!). I was awkwardly hanging out in the street with my cousins` rat pack waiting for Katerina to make a move. But when 10pm rolled around, Katerina went to bed. I followed her, utterly sick of the mass of social confusion I constantly harbor. I made my way to bed. Two hours later, Kate woke me up and told me to grab my swimsuit. At this point I resigned to be at her mercy because trying to figure out what is going to happen next is impossible here. So I downed a cup of coffee because it seemed like a good idea, and hopped in the car with her.

We pulled up to a bus downtown with all of her female classmates inside sporting guitars, cymbals, kazoos, drums, whistles, boom boxes... whatever noise makers they could find. It was about 12:30pm when we set off. These girls were screaming like I couldn`t believe. It`s totally acceptable to just scream your head off here... all the time for no good reason. I can`t say it`s something I enjoy. We pulled up to a house and scampered out to the front lawn. We yowled songs (and when I say we, I mean me yelling the syllables in the chord progression) and beat the instruments until Bernardo, a boy from the class opened the door in his PJs. We kidnapped him, threw him in the bus and pulled out to go to the next house. Because El Colegio de la Madre del Divino Pastor is a private school, some of the boys lived as far away as the Panama boarder, and it was 4am when we finally collected every chico. I thought Well that was weird and fun, going home and sleeping will be so nice. Wrong again!!

We proceeded to stop at several teachers` houses (by now fairly inebriated) belting out the Mariachi songs and they would come out, laughing in their boxers. Like I said, these people are LAID BACK. When we had finished and the bus started heading in the opposite direction as Neily, I knew there was more that I didn`t understand. It was 5am, and my thoughts were interrupted by Yazmin crying, A LA PLAYA, HERMANO!!!! and my limp bathing suit in my bag finally made sense. I asked which local beach we were going to, and my friend Ronny turned to me and said, Baby, we got a two hour bus ride! These kids drank themselves sick, opening beer bottles with their teeth and screamed the latest club music all the way to Zan Cudo beach on the other side of the Gulf. As a testament to the party culture of Costa Rica, we were in the middle of nowhere surrounded by rice farms and somehow the bus driver found a station playing Love in this Club at 5am on a Sunday morning. With the sunrise silhouetting our partied out stupor, we piled out of the bus and into a private beach resort house. Our smelly, stinky party felt entirely odd juxtaposed against the innocence of the country`s dawn.

The house was nicely furnished with an outdoor bar, 4 bedrooms, a hammock-filled lawn, and a beach front. I excitedly ran out to where the horizon dropped off and could not believe the view I saw. This place is paradise for sure. The beach could have been on any magazine cover: mountains stretching up on all sides, fresh clear water, fine black sand, and the brilliant sunrise poking up over the palms. It was a great moment to be alive, and an even greater moment to sleep for a few hours on a towel. When we went home at 4pm, if you can believe it (I couldn`t), we stopped for an entire new crate of beer, and the Sunday afternoon raucous party lasted all the way back to Neily. 

Today I brought cookies to the school for the staff to celebrate Rosh Hashanah. I told them that it was the celebration of Jewish New Year, but they didn`t seem to hear the Jewish part, and the nuns exclaimed how Oh that`s RIGHT! Today is New Year in the United States! and happily munched away on the cookies. I try my hardest not to laugh in such situations, but the imagery was too good.

In other news, to work off my new cookie fat, I have joined a daily workout class with my aunt and her cousin. It`s basically like my mom`s water aerobics class sin agua. Everyone is over 30, really nice and super jazzed about getting some buns of steel. It only costs about a dollar per class.

Talk about buns of steal!!

Pura Vida,

Elaine